Seriously, Jake, tell him yourself – he’s the bearded dude at the piano behind you.
Actually, come to think of it Mr. Shears, he’s your boyfriend, and has been for years. If he hasn’t worked out yet that you need his love, there’s a serious communication breakdown in your relationship.
On the plus side, now that you’ve told the world about this – passive-aggressive much? – he probably does know. I assume you are now getting all the love you need, but if not, well, hey, be the man that you know you are.